Reading about approaches to health, people's diets, etc. has me thinking about my approach to health. For so many years I was obsessed with the way I looked and with how I thought my body should be and with what foods could be allowed in my diet to give me a certain body, and it didn't work. I was never good enough, never what I wanted to be, never who I thought I should be. I have a hard time with the idea of a diet, even with the word diet, although I know it is used to talk about what a person eats, not necessarily as a weight loss tool, but I don't like the word one bit.
I think that for me the idea of being healthy really has very little to do with food and exercise, but more with mental health because I think that if we are loving ourselves and wanting to take care of ourselves, the rest falls into place. So I am focusing on me, shocker since it has been what I have done for 23 years, it is something I excel at and am very good at being the center of my world, as I am sure you can all attest to, but I think it is important when we approach health to think in the entirety of it all. Being healthy isn't being a certain weight, a certain size, eating certain foods, running, sit-ups, vegan, meat and potatoes, it is loving yourself and taking care of yourself because you're worth it and you realize it.
I love you all very much and want you to be healthy and around for a long time. I also want you to enjoy life and not obsess and waste your time like I did for so long, it's not worth it. So don't obsess and the love the skin you're in (I stole that cliche)!
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hannah-ball,
you are the bomb dot com.
i love you.
~ heather
Right you are Hannah. It's always good to keep in mind that feeling good and loving ourselves is the ultimate goal, and whatever we do to get there is not. And I apologize if I tend to put too much emphasis on things like diet and weight and whatnot on this blog.
Love you too.
Hannah, I think you are growing up! I wish I could express myself as well as you did.
I love all of you just the way you are, but I am happy and less worried when you are exercising and thinking about your hearts, minds and spirits.
Mom
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